“Realizing that I am the only person who can determine MY WORTH has caused the greatest shift in my financial life”
Financial stability is a wonderful concept and certainly one that everybody goes after. There are many resources available to us today for making money and becoming successful, whilst these resources are great and bring us tons of knowledge there is a common belief being introduced over and over again to people which is: I need to work super hard to prove myself and become worthy of receiving money.
This is a very common belief my clients and I come across during their sessions and in particular, I worked with a wonderful lady recently who had this exact belief even though she had a great high-paying job and a stable financial status. Despite all of this she explained that she always has anxiety about getting fired and being stuck in a flight or fight position. She quickly became aware that this was a reason for her attracting jobs and employers who fired people out of nowhere which added more to her anxiety even though she was successful at her job.
Using guided meditations and the timeline technique, we were able to identify the root cause of this belief. Interestingly enough, it all went back to her own birth and her mom’s anxiety about bringing another child when they were struggling financially. Immediately guilt and fear came to the surface as the lady realized how much responsibility she has carried from the moment she was brought into this world until now, and this responsibility was taking care of herself and her family financially because she has always felt guilty about being born since it was a struggle for her family.
Continuing with the NLP techniques, we were able to eliminate that negative belief and build a new one which became: I am wanted, my mom was excited to have me because there is always a way out and everything is ok because it was never my fault.
Toward the end of the session, she felt loved, relieved, and safe because she no longer felt the need to be in flight or fight mode in order to “survive”.
No amount of money or material object can determine your worth or value as an individual, we all have the ability to be assertive in who we are, act as the person we want to become, and attract people who treat us based on who we are not what we have.
If you find yourself questioning your value because of money, let’s have a chat and change that perception so you can attract exactly what you want with calmness and ease instead of anxiety and overworking yourself
Published By: Zaina Armoush