Your childhood is the basis of all the experiences and reactions you attract as an adult. It is essentially the foundation of all the patterns we adopt, the triggers we act upon, and the beliefs we have about our reality.

We are all born with strong needs for emotional security. Love, acceptance, safety, freedom, and physical intimacy are what we initially build our self-worth on, and how much attention we receive as children is a strong determinate of that. The interesting thing about these specific needs is that they are heavily remembered and integrated within the cellular composition of our bodies, they are felt rather than understood, and hence why they stay with us until we pass on from life as we know it. When we are born and throughout our childhood, we are dependent on the adults around us for survival and therefore these needs are primal and can only be fully fulfilled at the early stages of our lives, as we grow older and become independent adults, those same needs become more flexible since we are not so reliant on those around us and they are then not heavily connected to our continuity in life.

The adults who received these primal needs to a great extent throughout their childhood, tend to present themselves as unconditionally loving individuals who are simultaneously aware of healthy boundaries and expectations of every type of relationship they are involved in. They have great control of their emotions and are able to effectively provide for themselves positive emotional and psychological support when faced with challenging situations. On the other hand, adults who were deprived of these necessities as children often grow up to be afraid of receiving these same necessities of true love and acceptance simply because they never learned how to. These individuals are usually stuck in a repetitive pattern of toxic relationships where they attract people who treat them the same way their caretakers did in the past or they themselves display an unhealthy amount of affection in order to make up for the loss they suffered as a child. The tragedy of this as well is that these individuals will also spend their lives living in denial of the abuse they suffered and will utilize that as a coping mechanism based on false hopes of changing the past whilst disconnecting from the present moment and subconsciously attracting the same repetitive toxicity for the future.

Is all hope lost then for these children … adults?

Absolutely not. In fact, our childhood can be used as a map to guide us on what areas we need to work on in order to shift our mindset to a healthy and abundant frequency.

Our minds are stronger than what we think and although time machines are still yet to be invented, we do have the option of different therapy. 

I healed my own past with timeline therapy and this was a reason that I got certified for hypnosis, coaching and timeline therapy, so I can help others to do the same.

You can delete your triggers.

This method of treatment operates at an unconscious level where individuals are able to “travel back in time” whilst being in a meditative state in order to identify a root cause of a certain negative emotion, resolve it and reprogram internally to remove it from their subconscious mind. This treatment is also used overcoming limiting beliefs, anxiety, bringing conscious awareness of positive resources from the past, and goal setting for a much positive future.

What happened in the past is meant to stay there, dwelling on that pain is what keeps it with us in the present and future. As adults, we need to recognize that what happened in the past was not our fault nor did we deserve it, but today it’s our responsibility to heal and give our inner child the love they missed out on all these years.

You owe it to yourself.  

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Written By: Zaina Armoush